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| Maria | My husband's son from his first marriage was killed in a car accident on June 6, 2006. His friend was driving. Kris, my stepson, died instantly. He was ejected from the car. I want to know if he suffered at all or if he wants to communicate with anyone here since nobody was able to say goodbye. | |
| Dear Maria I am so sorry to hear about your stepson's death. It is hard when a young person dies. I talk to a lot of dead people and no matter how anyone died they all have said the same thing: it really does not hurt to die. If someone has a bad sickness, they sometimes suffer, but not when they actually die. Accidents like your stepson's usually happen so fast that they feel only surprise when they realize that they are dead. When you have a dream about him you can ask him yourself, and you will then be able to say goodbye. Mary Ann | ||
| Betty Hanover, MI | Hello, My sister Mary was terminally ill two years ago. She passed on 5/31/05. One day my youngest sister Margaret was at my house. We were driving together to Mary's to help care for her. Margaret admired a painting on the hallway wall just before we left the house. Later that day my significant other returned home and he called me. He asked if I had taken the painting down and set it on the floor against the wall. It wasn't either Margaret or me who took the painting down? Also, who drops coins for me and who sets off my musical coke magnet? | |
| Dear Betty, I cannot tell you who took the picture down. It was the only incident that you talked about. If it was an earthbound ghost in your house, there would be more going on. As far as the coins and your musical coke magnet, that is most likely your sister Mary saying "Hi" when she comes for a visit. Music boxes going off and little knick-knacks being moved or turned, is another way that they are letting you know that they are fine. Mary Ann | ||
| Jocelyn Morristown, TN | My mother-in-law recently passed. I was the only one with her at her passing. A few weeks later my father-in-law wanted her clothes gone. He was having a problem dealing with her death as they had been married 54 years. I was alone in the house and talking to my mother-in-law, telling her what I was doing when the most potent smell of perfume came into the room. There was no perfume there at the time and all the clothes were fresh out of the closet and clean. She had been unable to wear them for some time. My husband, their only son, came into the room a little later and the same thing occurred. I told them it was Billie and she was telling us she was alright with me doing this for her, and that she was alright and in the right place since her passing. My mother-in-law was a Christian and believed in Jesus and heaven. I even talked to her about the job she would hold in heaven when she passed. Is it wrong to feel insight into something like what happened? I truly believe she was there with me while I was cleaning out her closets. Is that my way of comforting myself and others? | |
| Hi Jocelyn, You are 100 percent correct. She was so happy you were helping your father-in-law. She knew it would be heart-wrenching for him to do that task. It was her way of saying thank you with the pleasant scent of perfume, and her only way of helping you. Good job. Mary Ann | ||
| Gabriela | I was just wondering if all the people that die have unfinished business. My brother-in-law was shot and killed. We still don't know who the killer is. Is my brother-in-law still here or did he cross over? Thank you. | |
| Dear Gabriela, No, everybody that dies does not have unfinished business. Unfortunately people that suffer violent deaths almost always have unfinished business. If you or anyone has had a dream of your brother-in-law, then he has crossed over. If no one has had a dream of him then he is earthbound. When you or someone finally dreams of him, ask him in the dream what happened. If he knows he will tell you or someone else. Mary Ann | ||
| Tanya Ardmore, TN | Hello Mary Ann, I think it is a wonderful gift that you have, your daily life must be awesome, and thanks for sharing your experiences with everyone through the show. My best friend was like a brother to me. We would see each other everyday. We worked together and played together…he died in a terrible accident four years ago. I was supposed to go to the same party he went to the night he died but I got sick and couldn't, but I've lived with the fact that if I had been there that night he wouldn't have gotten into a truck with someone else and maybe he would still be here. I dream about him often and carry his picture with me everywhere because I miss him so much. I sometimes feel as though someone is with me and at times it feels as though someone is playing with my hair. Is there anyway I can find out if it's him or not? Is there anyway I can talk to him? | |
| Hello Tanya, I have good news for you. Your friend was ok with his death, because he has crossed over. You would not be able to dream of him if he had not crossed over. Yes, you can talk to him all you want in your dreams. Nobody realizes they can do that. There is no way you should do the "What if's." This was his time, place and how it was supposed to happen. Your being at that party would not have made a difference. If your friend had issues with his death, he would not have crossed over. When he visits you, he could be playing with your hair. Mary Ann | ||
| Traicy Las Vegas, NV | Dear Mary Ann, When my oldest boy was only about 18 months old, he woke up one night and said that the ghost scared him. Everyday after that he played with "George" and talked to "George." He described George as long and white and purple. His description never changed no matter what day we asked him. After a few months of this one day he threw himself on the floor screaming and crying. When I asked him what was wrong he said George would not let him go with him. My initial reaction was "OMG, I don't want you to play with George anymore." A couple of days later he and grandpa were walking to the mailbox and grandpa asked him if he had seen George and he said no, that George went away and wasn't coming back. I felt bad after this happened because George had never hurt my son and after I thought about what had happened I thought George was protecting my son by not letting him come with him. I do not know who this George was but I do believe that my son saw someone. A few years passed and when he was about five years old he spent the night at grandma and grandpa's one night and came out of the bedroom to tell grandma that George had come by to say "Hi." Would George be someone we knew in life or could a spirit have attached himself to my son for another reason? Sincerely, Traicy | |
| Hello Traicy, What you are describing is so normal for a child to see and talk about. Children are so innocent and open. They do not even realize who they are talking to. They can see and converse with guardian angels, spirit guides, ghosts that are earthbound and ones that have crossed over, or even a relative coming for a visit. Children always give their friends names, maybe they make them up, or maybe a ghost tells them a name. The good thing about the "imaginary friends" is that they usually do not stay around very long. So no, your son does not have an earthbound ghost attached to him. Mary Ann |
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