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| K. Brown Houston, TX | Hello, my name is K. Brown. I am from Houston, Texas. My maternal grandmother, who I was very close to, passed on 12/31/05. A couple of nights prior to her passing, I had a very unsettling dream in which I felt like she was trying to come into my body. It disturbed me and made me feel very uneasy. I then had another dream with a different scenario but the same theme. Every now and then when I dream of her it's always a sad dream. I see her sitting in a wheelchair outside in our old neighborhood with her head down, and another time I've seen her sitting in a rocking chair in a house with no walls; just the frame of the house was standing. She never ever says anything; she just looks at me sadly. These dreams are so real that when I wake up I almost forget that my grandmother is deceased. This past 1 ½ year I've lost my grandfather, my grandmother, my sister-in-law, my mother-in-law and a close cousin who was just killed in Iraq. When or if I dream about them, it's usually a happy one. Is this just my imagination (I really don't think so) or is it something else that could be going on? Help! | |
| Hi K. Brown The dream you had before your grandmother died was not her trying to get into your body. That was your spirit guides preparing you that something major was coming. It was unsettling because it was a death, and they were warning you who it would be. The other dreams of your grandmother tell me that she has not crossed over into the light. I have no way of knowing from a letter why she did not cross over, but it was her choice to stay. Sometimes a ghost knows they made a mistake not going into the light. That is why she looked so sad. K, your other relatives that crossed over are content and happy. You can see the difference when you dream of them. Let me make a suggestion. On the anniversary of her death 12-31-06, write a note on a piece of paper, on one side only. Tell her to go to a funeral home that has a service going on and use that white light around the ghost of the deceased person who is there. She can cross over that way. You will know when she has crossed over the first time you have a happy dream of her. K, this was not your imagination. Everything you sensed and felt was accurate. Good Luck Mary Ann | ||
| Karen Canada | Hello, I am one of five siblings ranging in age from 41-5, 4 girls and 1 male. On August 23, 2004 my parents committed double suicide. My Mom sat behind my Dad on a stool in one of the buildings outside their home in Ashern, Manitoba, Canada. My Dad arranged a rifle, ladder and themselves in such a manner that one shot killed them both. The RCMP (police) said it was an almost impossible shot to kill them both. This tragedy has had a terrible impact on our family. I feel like crying just writing this (I thank God that I found you.). My brother is the worst. He is angry, bitter and incensed by what happened, he blames others and can't understand why. He has two small children (10 & 2; the baby was born two months after). The family is suffering horribly, and I no longer know how to help. He lives in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. And we are in Winnipeg, Manitoba. One sister has no contact with the 3 that remain talking. We need to understand; we want this darkness to lift; we are lost. Our sorrow reaches to depths we did not know. Why, why, why, and the guilt, what did we miss and what did we not do enough of? They were 74 & 75, 2 days before my Dad's birthday. | |
| Hi Karen, What a tragedy for your family to go through. The loss of parents is hard, but especially when it is suicide. I can understand the anger and wanting to blame someone, but that is not going to help. You all have to understand that your parents made up their minds to do this and followed their plan. Bad health, money problems or depression: any one or all could have contributed to this decision. Plus a devotion to one another would have been involved with their choice. They would have been afraid to discuss it with the children because they did not want their minds changed. So you cannot be guilty about something you did not know. So you see this was truly their choice. Everyone deals with death in their own way, but there was nothing anybody could have done to stop this tragedy. Your parents died exactly how they wanted. You do not have to like it, but you cannot change it. Pray for them, that their choice was right for them. You have my sympathy, Mary Ann | ||
| Nickie | Hi Mary Ann, My name is Nickie, and my father recently passed (July 20th of this year). There have been other family members that have died, and I would either have dreams or a feeling that they were close. However, since my father's death I have not had any dreams or a feeling of his presence. Is there a reason some you connect with and others you don't? | |
| Hi Nickie Sorry for your loss. I feel that your father has crossed into the light, but sometimes it can take up to three years before you dream of them. Another reason you have not dreamt of him might be because he is afraid it would upset or scare you. Remember, as long as someone has had a dream of him he is where he is supposed to be. It is extremely difficult for an earthbound ghost to get into a dream. Hope you get your dream soon. Mary Ann | ||
| Sue St. Augustine,FL | Hello, My son Ryan passed away 30 days ago very unexpectedly. He turned 21 on a Friday and died the following morning. I am dreading the Christmas holidays this year because he won't be here with us. I ask every night for him to talk to me and let me know if he is ok. Can you see or talk to him for me? Thank you, Sue | |
| Hi Sue, How sad at such a young age and at the holidays. I cannot see or talk to Ryan in a letter. If he has not crossed over, I would have to be in your house. If Ryan has crossed over, it really is too soon from him to come in a dream. The earliest is usually about six months, and could take as long as three years. Sometimes you can get confirmation that a loved one has crossed over and that they are all right. You are thinking about them, and a favorite song comes on the radio. You find a coin dated the year that he was born. A photo you have not seen in years shows up. You get a craving for his favorite meal. Somebody walks by with his favorite aftershave on. There are all kinds of little reminders that are close and watching over us. Keep watching, Mary Ann | ||
| T.S.H. | Hi Hello MaryAnn, Thank you for answering people's questions; this is so needed. My Dad died 13 years ago. Dad was psychic and believed in reincarnation. A few years ago, I contacted a psychic who told me that Dad had gone on to a higher plane and was helping people get ready to come down to earth. I have never felt my Dad around, and I really thought he would be in contact with the family, especially Mum, who writes daily to him. If he chose to help those coming to earth, would this preclude him from contacting us? I must admit that although I really want to see him and to know that he is at peace and not hurting anymore, but at the same time, this does scare me. How can I not be scared and open myself up to my psychic side? Thank you so much. | |
| Dear T.S. It sounds like your dad was a little more spiritually evolved than most. With his knowledge, he very well could be on a higher plane helping people. However, he would never forget or ignore his family. You and your family need to be more aware of your dreams. The easiest way for him to come to you and communicate is through dreams. There is absolutely no reason to be afraid of visits from your father, or actually anyone that you dream of; they cannot ever hurt you. Ask your father to help you develop your psychic ability. Who better to ask for help, especially with his knowledge? Good luck with your learning. Mary Ann | ||
| Becca Cumming, GA | Hi Mary Ann, I have had an out-of-body experience where I was looking down on myself while I was taking a nap. Does that mean that I have died before? Some people seem to think so. | |
| Hi Becca, You had an (oobe) out-of-body experience. You left your body and were invisible and saw yourself taking a nap. Normally, you do not have control of this. What your friends are talking about is an (nde), a near-death experience. This is to be declared clinically dead and then return to life, remembering the experience. So you see Becca, they are similar but no during your (oobe) you did not die! Part of your energy just was not interested in taking a nap. Hope this helps. Mary Ann |
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