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Rebecca
England

Dear Mary Ann,

On the 29th of 0ctober 2006, my dad committed suicide very unexpectedly. I've felt a strange presence in my room many times. Is this my dad visiting me? Also, the night he died I felt the feeling of knowing how he had died and that this time we couldn't save him. I later found out that at the exact time I felt that way, it was the same time they estimated my dad died. Do you think that was my dad passing through to let me know he was gone? Has he passed over or is he still with us? I turn 21 on Valentine's Day and would like to think that he will be there to celebrate my birthday with me.

Thank you
Rebecca



Rebecca,
I am sorry for your loss. Suicides are very difficult for the living relatives and friends left behind.

People who commit suicide are mentally ill. Otherwise they would not have killed themselves.

The bond between a child and parent can be very strong, so yes you could have sensed something was wrong with your father. Also, from your letter you felt that he may have attempted suicide previously and failed. You could have always been expecting this at any time.

Your answer is yes, your father was there to say good bye.

I have no way of knowing from a letter if he has crossed over or not, but I am sure either way he will not miss your 21st birthday, especially on such a day of love (Saint Valentine's day).

Rebecca, happy 21st birthday! Try to enjoy your special day. Your father would want that.

Mary Ann
Erica
Brazil

Hi, I'm a Brazilian girl and I love the Ghost Whisperer and love Jennifer so much. I have some questions for Mary Ann:

1) How and when do spirits make a passage?
2) Can the spirits make some passages badly?
3) How can I see or communicate with them?


I appreciate the information. Thank you.
Erica



Hi Erica,
I am so happy you watch and enjoy Ghost Whisperer.

I will answer your questions.

1) Once a person dies, the ghost of that person has 24 to 72 hours after the final service (cemetery or memorial service) to go into the white light. Going into the white light means heaven, crossing over, or eternal peace. Everyone has their own idea of what it is and where it will take them. Once they go into it, they're where they are supposed to be.

2) An earthbound ghost (one that has not gone into the white light) has the same personality they had when they were alive. If they were mean or angry when they were alive they are still going to be the same when they die.

3) Everyone can communicate with ghosts that have gone into the light. You can talk to them in a dream. Earthbound ghosts are the ones that you do not want to talk to. All you are doing is giving them energy, which is not good.

Hope this helps. Please keep watching Melinda help earthbound ghosts cross over.

Mary Ann
Bruno
Chaves, Portugal

I'm a very big fan of your's. I see your episodes through satellite TV because here in Portugal we've only just begun season one.

So here are my questions: Why are kids more able to see ghosts than adults? Are they usually more sensitive to that kind of sensation than adults? Can ghosts see themselves in a mirror?

Kisses ;)

P.S. Sorry about my English. I'm not a pro writer. Hehehe :P



Hello Bruno,
I am so glad you are watching Ghost Whisperer in Portugal. How exciting!

Children are so innocent and pure they are able to see Guardian Angels and relatives who have died, spirit guides, and all kinds of ghosts. The older a child gets, the less they usually see.

This is why adults should pay attention to a child when they talk about this and not make fun of them.

I do not know if a ghost can see themselves in a mirror. The next one I talk to I will ask that question. Living people have seen them reflected in a mirror, so maybe the answer is yes.

Your English is great. I had no problems.

Keep watching Ghost Whisperer.

Thanks
Jose
Coatzacoalcos City, Mexico

Hello there dear Mary Ann!!!

I am 55, married and a Mexican citizen. My problem is as follows. Since I was a boy I have had the same dream: I see myself as a boy walking up a stone street carrying in my right hand a flower for someone but I never see the end of the dream.

I was born on Nov. 27, 1951 at 15:15 in Cordoba City, Veracruz State, Mexico. I love my wife (she is 50) and my children (two girls, 28 and 24, and one boy, 20). All of them are married but I do like to be alone most of the time.

I have asked doctors and a psychologist but I no clear answers. Does my dream have any meaning? Please help me if you can. Many thanks in advance



Hi Jose,
I am not a dream interpreter, but I know most dreams are in symbols that mean something to the person having the dream.

I can give you the general meaning of a boy carrying a flower walking on a stone street.

You have great potential for a new venture. Your plans should work out because you are on solid ground. Eventually you will see someone at the end of the street in a dream, and that is when it will start.

There is nothing wrong with alone time. We all need it in our lives.

Thanks
Mary Ann
Jaime
Mexico

Hi Mary Ann,
My brother died in a car accident five years ago. My family and I never got the details about what really happened to him. I mean, how did he crash? Or did someone crash into him?

There were rumors that some people wanted to hurt him. He survived on intensive care for over 18 days, but he wasn't able to speak. He was a very kind, soft, generous person in life. My mother cries and suffers because she couldn't learn what happened and because my brother wanted to say something when she last saw him but finally didn't.

Now I am 31 years old and very sick, suffering in many ways. Sometimes I don't know what to do with my life and my family (wife and a four-year-old girl). I am lost.

I urgently need my brother's guidance but he's dead. What can I do so you can help me to communicate with him one more time? I feel sometimes like he really knows how to help me to do the right things in this hard, final moment of my life and wants to communicate with me. In this topic, I need your help. What do I have to do? Where can I go? How much would it cost? Do you speak Spanish?

Please, you are my last chance to do things right at the end of my life...

Something tells me you can help.



Dear Jaime,
I am very sad for you and your family's loss due to the death of your brother. It is never easy for a mother to lose a child no matter how old they are.

I cannot tell you how your brother's accident happened, but you or your mother or anyone else dreaming of him can ask him what happened.

We can all dream and talk to our loved ones who have died.

Before you fall asleep at night, think of your brother and say to yourself, "If I dream of him I will talk to him." It may not happen right away, but you will eventually dream of him. He can also guide you with your other questions.

No, I do not speak Spanish, but I think we understand each other pretty well.

Good Luck.
Mary Ann
Jose
Maceio, Brazil

Hello Mary Ann,

I live in Brazil and I think that there is something wrong in my house. Every night I see dead people walk in my house and I don't know what to do. I feel strange. I think and I know that things are bad. Please help me.

Thanks
José



Hello Jose,
I can suggest two things to try and help your problem:

1) You can have an ordained priest or minister come to your house and bless it. Please do not get holy water and sprinkle it around yourself. That would make any earthbound ghost in your house angry.

2) Smudge the house with sage. Burn the sage in every room of your house.

Sometimes doing one or both of these things will make any earthbound ghosts leave. You may also be able to find someone in your area that can talk to earthbound ghosts who can release them.

Hope these tips work.
Mary Ann



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